CELIBACY: HAPPINESS.

By Lex Posimi

An Aunt of mine remarried for three times.
She got divorced three times too.
Five kids for three different fathers.
She missed it in that aspect of marriage.
She finished with a first class in her first degree; and a Ph.D. Holder.
But her brilliance can't get her good marriage. Nothing can. Only God can.
She is in all area a good person, as her character isn't the reason for her predicament.
She left the first in search of happiness which she never got; and also to the next, and the next.
Marriage is great... Happiness is greater
Many left their happiness the day they had gone In search for love.
No! You don't go looking for love. It's love that must find you.
I've a big sister who got married at age 37 and also fight cancer.
She met love during her struggles. Regardless of her pitiful life; love found her.
She bore twins twice... Her delay was erased.
That's how beautiful it is to wait.
That's the way it should be.
But above all, in all your search for marriage, for love, for anything at all.
Happiness is the most important.
I've seen people striving and suffering to keep their marriage.
I've seen young wives in bondage, greatly afflicted.
I've seen responsible men in cave.
I've seen young divorced couples.
They tried but happiness was long lost.
My Aunt found happiness in herself.
What she was looking for; was there in within.
It took her three different men to realize that.
But now she has it. Full of it.
If marriage isn't working; stay alone, it's okay.
If relationship isn't working; it's very okay to be single.
If love can't find you; happiness will.
Not everyone deserves marriage; but everyone deserves happiness.
Celibacy is a choice. Its the best when love fails you. When Marriage fails you.
Just look within you; You'll see happiness. Enough of it.
Of course, Love is the greatest of ALL

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